How to tell if someone is lying…

Lying makes things worse because it hurts your personal relationships, relationships with friends and family, brothers and sisters, parents, children, teachers, colleagues etc. Lying harms not only personal relationships but it can ruins business relationships as well. In conducting business we also put ourselves into the hands of others.

Have you ever noticed how badly you feel when you discover a friend has told you even a diminutive lie? It hurts a lot. You wonder why a friend would do that to you. We all lie but not all lies are harmful, sometimes lying is the best approach for protecting privacy of ourselves and others. Sometimes it is told when the truth may not be told because it can harm the others.

Have you ever felt angry and didn’t want to speak to someone ever again for hurting your

feelings by telling a lie?  

No need to be worry now, just relax, cheer up and be happy. Here I want to share with you few useful tips by which you can easily catch who is lying to you and this knowledge is for anyone to use in everyday situations and can prevent you from being a victim of fraud and can catch that person red handed.

1.      How to tell if someone is lying based on the movements of their eyes. A person who is lying to you avoid making contact your eyes.

2.      A lair touches his face too much.

3.      A lair rubs his nose frequently.

4.      Scratching behind their ears.

5.      Expressions don’t match the verbal statement.

6.       People tend to sweat more when they lie.

7.      A person who is lying tries to lubricate their throat by swallowing or clearing their throat.

8.      A person who is lying uses the same convincing sentence again and again when they are asked to explain the situation.

9.      Sometimes facial expressions on his face reveal true emotion.

10.   A liar’s voice can also be a good indicator.

11.  An honest answer comes quickly from memory but lies require a quick mental review so if you really want to know that a person is lying pay attention to his reaction to your questions.

12.  A liar may speak more than natural by adding unnecessary details to convince you.  Sometimes they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.

Lies also hurt me a lot, I really feel very bad but I usually forgive and never say even a single word to that person because I personally believe that life is too short to live, smile is the best medicine and forgiveness is the best act but truly speaking hurt is still there in my heart for that particular person.

By the way there are some situations where I also use this tool ;) 

If someone lies, how do you feel about it, how you detect it, and how do you react?